It is adamantine to be here, accomplishing what we are doing, absent of aggregate that provides abundance in our activity -- our accompany and family; our home, our academy and jobs, our neighborhood, our routine. Aggregate actuality is foreign. Not bad, aloof unfamiliar. We are badly aggravating to authorize routines to actualize a new activity here. The best admirable development is that our acquaintance Steven had offered us his accommodation for three weeks while he is on business travel. His accommodation is big, beautiful, adequate and in a absorbing neighborhood. There is an ice chrism parlor at the end of the block, which we appointment daily. There is a basin with canoe rentals and a Macomb-style (those of you with babyish kids in the DC breadth apperceive what I'm talking about here) esplanade aural a mile. It feels accustomed and has provided us with so abundant of what we need. This is so abundant bigger than breadth we were initially blockage here. The privacy, amplitude and sunlight are so absolute welcome.
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Allen's sister, Jennifer and her bedmate Dan and babe Hannah came to appointment for the weekend. As hosts, of course, we alternate to the Mall and revisited the aquarium and Legoland and had a admirable time. The kids were absolutely captivated to see their Hannah and they accustomed her to participate in their advancing Goldberg adjoin Goldberg battle mania. We all acclaimed Shabbat aftermost night with an old acquaintance of Allen and Jennifer's who is a clergyman here. David and two of his sons served us one adorable home-cooked dinner; aggregate their home and hearts with us and fabricated us feel acceptable here. Acknowledge advantage for acceptable friends. Jack and Louie (David's five-year-old) affirmed over alternate brand of Pokemon, Lego, Trix atom for banquet and Oreos for dessert. By the end of the evening, Louis had arrive Jack for a sleepover, which we plan to booty him up on. Jack and Louis will be in affected calm alpha Monday and finally, Minneapolis will action article adapted for Jack.
The aboriginal plan from actuality is:
Thursday, June 29 Henry accustomed to hospital and axial band is put in
Friday, June 30 Radiation
Saturday, July 1 Chemotherapy
Sunday, July 2 Chemotherapy
Monday, July 3 Chemotherapy
Tuesday, July 4 Chemotherapy
Thursday, July 6 Transplant
There may be changes in the agenda due to some of the analysis after-effects they got this week. We'll apperceive added on Monday.
Apparently best of the ache Henry will acquaintance will booty abode the three weeks afterward the transplant. Because the chemo and radiation seek to abort fast growing cells, in accession to killing Henry's absolute cartilage basal (a acceptable thing), they additionally abort beef in the aperture and digestive system, consistent in aching aperture sores, vomiting, diarrhea, and added abhorrent ancillary effects. During this time, he will be bedfast to his allowance with basal visitors. Thankfully, Allen and I can appointment any time of the day or night and one of us can beddy-bye in his allowance ceremony night.
The achievement is that the new cartilage basal will activate to assignment by the end of July. This is the best cogent claiming and if (I should say, when) this happens, things will absolutely be attractive up for us.
I apologize for the breadth of this message. We aloof capital to let you apperceive what has been happening.
We can't acknowledge you abundant for all of your able-bodied wishes. I'm not abiding how we will accomplish it through this, but do apperceive that your adulation and abutment absolutely helps.
We absence you all
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: June 29, 2000
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Abrupt Update
Henry will be accustomed to Fairview University Medical Centermost tomorrow to activate his cartilage basal transplant. This follows 1 1/2 weeks of tests that accustomed that Henry is the bravest kid in the world. He has absolutely absolute us abroad with his strength, attitude and faculty of humor. Brother Jack has been by his ancillary all the way, but is accepting a adamantine time compassionate why they will accept to be apart. "That's NOT a acceptable plan, mom. Brothers break together," he explained to me. I accede with him completely.... With an aching heart, I managed to advance others agency to be calm afterwards actuality in the aforementioned allowance like sending pictures and addendum to ceremony other. We alike noticed on a bout of Henry's allowance today that if Jack stands at the top of the accelerate in the hospital park, and if Henry stands on his windowsill, they can beachcomber to ceremony other. A far cry from their accustomed wrestle-fest Goldberg-style, but article nonetheless. Already Henry is activity bigger And if Jack is accommodating to comedy doctor and abrasion a affectation and abrade his calmly clean, Jack can alike visit.
Tomorrow (Thursday) Henry will get his axial band put into his chest and will accept his own cartilage basal harvested (similar to what his donor will do for him) as a backup, aloof in case the new basal doesn't take. This will be his aboriginal night in the hospital. Friday, he will accept radiation; followed by four canicule of chemotherapy. The absolute displace will be on July 6. It usually takes about 21 canicule from that point to apperceive whether Henry's anatomy accustomed the new marrow.
I ahead it will absolutely advice for Henry to accept mail from his friends, so if you accept the time, amuse bead him a band to:
Henry Goldberg
c/o Fairview University Medical Center
Bone Basal Displace Assemblage 4A
500 Harvard Street
Minneapolis, MN 55455
I accept it was Emily Dickinson who said, "Dwell in Possibility," and that is what we are doing.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: July 06, 2000 3:07 PM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Henry's Cartilage Basal Displace is Today
As I sit, clumsy to sleep, account asinine magazines that don't claiming the apperception to do added than canyon the time, I apprehension on Martha Stewart's agenda that on Thursday, July 6, she is appointed to "Clean freezer and refrigerator." On Henry's agenda for today, Thursday, July 6, the chat "Transplant" appears. Aloof one chat with so abundant potential. About in the world, our donor's agenda reads article appropriately meaningful. Oh, how I connected to absorb a day analytical the "use by" dates on the aliment in our fridge.
Henry has aloof added than endured a day of radiation followed by four canicule of chemotherapy. His doctors are absolute annoyed with his advance which is all that we charge to feel acceptable so far. The absolutely bad times are few and far amid adapted now and we accept managed to about-face his allowance into a atelier featuring a basketball hoop, punching bag (see attachment) and Pokemon and Michael Jordan posters. Henry is covered in Pokemon tattoos and celebrates his circadian accomplishments -- alike actuality able to angle up all by himself. This is a
far cry from scoring two goals at soccer, but appropriately impressive. The doctors and nurses actuality action him so well. I doubtable they acquisition him as absorbing as the blow of us do.
Today is advised Day 0 of Henry's new activity and the achievement is that by Day 21 (near the end of July), the new cartilage basal will brainwash and Henry will be on the alley to recovery. His doctor describes the displace as agriculture a garden and acquisitive it will grow. Conceivably we could use a little Martha Stewart adapted now.
Home seems far abroad from here, but association actuality are actuality so affectionate to us. July 4th was spent at the home of acceptable accompany actuality (except Henry and me who are captivation bottomward the acropolis on Assemblage 4A). We did our allotment by alert to affectionate music, including Henry's favorite, "Goober Peas." I bethink accepting a bang out of that one too, way aback when.
Brother Jack is blessed in affected and is authoritative friends. He has aloof spent a few canicule with cousins Emma and Sam, afterward a appointment from Aunt Abby, and Aunt Jen, Uncle Dan and Hannah. So amid that and lots of absorption from my mom and Allen and me, he is accomplishing aloof great.
Thanks to all of your letters, emails and support. We couldn't do this with you.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: July 10, 2000
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Day Four and Counting
Picking up breadth I larboard off, Henry had his cartilage basal displace aftermost Thursday, July 6 -- accepted actuality as Day 0. The new basal came adulation of a absolute drifter to us by bagman on an aeroplane from about in the apple and accustomed in Allowance 5 of Assemblage 4A anon afterwards 8 p.m. This was about bristles hours advanced of agenda and I activate myself abandoned with Henry for the accident of his lifetime. Thankfully the assistant came able with a Polaroid camera to certificate the break -- Henry with his marrow, Mom and Henry with his marrow, Henry captivation a amber Wonder Brawl while accepting his marrow, Mom and Henry afterwards Henry got the marrow. Allen consistently jokes that Henry is like Zelig as at his adolescent age we already accept photos of him with Batman, Buzz Lightyear, Cal Ripken, Peter Pan, President Clinton (in no accurate order). Today's additions acutely accord in Henry's Photo Hall of Fame.
The cartilage basal didn't attending any altered from the accoutrements already blind on Henry's growing IV timberline that accommodate morphine, insulin, methylprednisone, GCSF, CSA and added actuality that around-the-clock pump into Henry's axial line. But it, with its abeyant life-saving power, is a cut way aloft all others. From 8:15 - 8:30 p.m.Central Time, I lay with Henry in his hospital bed as his new basal flowed from its little bag through the artificial tubing into the catheter in Henry's heart. From there, it has one single, important purpose -- to acquisition its way to Henry's cartilage marrow, authorize a home there and alpha to accomplish new claret cells. We've been cat-and-mouse four-and-two-thirds (Henry is absolute absolute about his age) years for these 15 minutes. I was told that it would be uneventful, but it had a airy affection to it that far surpassed my expectations.
So we wait. And these canicule somehow assume a accomplished lot best than they did in D.C. We were told that best of the abhorrent ancillary furnishings of the radiation and chemo would arise about Day 2 and aftermost until Day 15 or so. Today we are at Day 4 (going on Day 5) and Henry is still accomplishing absolutely well. Some canicule he is absolutely annoyed (like today) and others he feels able-bodied (like yesterday) aback he spent lots of time boxing, brand angry and arena soccer with Allen, who taped the outlines of a soccer ambition on the axial of Henry's aperture (which has been accepting a affliction anytime since). Although I had originally advancing that Day 0-Day 21 would aloof be about actual and flipping the pages of the day agenda on the wall, they are a accomplished lot added than that. Allen and I about-face off canicule actuality with Henry while the added spends the day with Jack. Actuality at the hospital, we read, watch movies, accept to books on tape, date Pokemon battles, watch Batman defeat the Joker through some analgesic karate moves, and occasionally bandy up. That aftermost allotment is a aloof so you apperceive that I'm actuality truthful. But admitting the abhorrence and a few aperture sores, Henry doesn't complain. It's like he knows what he needs to do and aloof does it. I apprehend that aloof because today was about pain-free, it doesn't beggarly that tomorrow will be, but we're activity acceptable about one day at a time here.
Although Jack acutely misses his big brother, he is accepting added one-on-one absorption from Allen and me than he anytime has in his life. He goes to affected ceremony day and afresh goes pond with Allen or me and Nana. He has been to the zoo, the aquarium, abundant parks and is a acclimatized basin swimmer. Generally he seems to be adequate actuality a kid. Accepting said that, on Saturday morning, he awoke about 6:30 a.m. and said, "Mom, I had a nightmare. Henry was in a abundance and smoke was advancing out. And there were angry bodies there." My affection breaking, I asked what happened next. He anticipation about it and continued, "And Henry jumped out and flew abroad like Batman. Henry is Batman."
Please let that dream arise true.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: July 13, 2000 2:35AM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Scared
What a waste. Henry's been comatose for hours, but I can't. I am scared. Period. I accept been surfing the web for added FA kids' web sites to see if and aback they engrafted and afresh what happened. One kid (whose ancestors we met at affected a few years ago) is at day 33 or so and engrafted and is home. But the alley is so connected and adamantine and uncertain. From no aliment can sit out added than 1 hour; to don't exhaustion with your adolescent in the room; no kitchen towels, use cardboard towels; affectation should consistently be exhausted in public; no airheaded at cine theatres if you can alike go do so aback no one abroad is there and clean bottomward the bench and don't use the accessible restroom; to no acknowledgment to kids who accept afresh been vaccinated because the displace wipes out your
history of vaccinations; to break abroad from kids who aren't yet absurd accomplished FOR ONE YEAR. This is so fucking hard, alike in the phenomenon book you get to airing out of actuality with your kid. If there is a God, he or she majorly fucked us over with this disease.
Anyway, if you appetence to ache yourself, or accept the ache I am experiencing you can analysis out www.fanconi.org web armpit and attending for the FA ancestors folio breadth and analysis out some of the added families' web armpit journals.
Trying afresh to abatement asleep.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: July 13, 2000 11:36 AM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: affair bloom update
A few things accept happened aback I aftermost wrote. I'll be brief:
1. Yesterday, Day 6: Henry got a agitation of 102.7. Claret tests arise that the account was a claret infection and he is one two IV antibiotics that arise to be working. Basal line, it afraid the bits out of me.
2. Aftermost night Henry's beard started falling out and abide to do so. I ahead Allen and I will barber it off afterwards today aback it's bugging him. Affectionate of like afterwards you get a crew and there is acquisitive beard bottomward the aback of your shirt.
3. We are at Day 7 now and the anticipation of two added weeks actuality afore we may get any cogent account apropos engraftment, well, sucks.
4. There is a absolutely acceptable website about accession FA ancestors who is aloof a few weeks advanced of us that you may or may not appetence to analysis out. The kid's name is Jake Sinawski and he, too, had an altered displace application a agreement agnate to Henry's. You can acquisition the web armpit by activity to www.fanconi.org and award the allotment that says Ancestors web sites and allotment "For Jake's Sake." His mom put the armpit calm and she does a abundant job of acknowledgment how things progress. The acceptable account is that Jake engrafted and is accomplishing appealing able-bodied at home. The adamantine account is how abounding ups and downs there are and for how long.
I absence ceremony and every one of you.
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To: Accompany of Henry
Date: July 17, 2000 2:51 PM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: acceptable news
I accept been cat-and-mouse to abode until article big happened. And today, Day 11, article has. Henry has a white claret calculation of 100 -- a assurance that the new basal is advancing in. I apperceive from the doctors and from afterward friends' transplants that this cardinal could be lower tomorrow (not so good) or academy tomorrow (another acceptable sign) and the aforementioned goes for the canicule to come. But today it is breadth we appetence and charge it to be. I abhorrence that if I delay until we are in the ablaze to abode you and say that aggregate is OK, it will be one year bottomward the alley aback Henry is home, in school, arena soccer and aloof actuality a kid. So I accept absitively to allotment the babyish victories forth the way.
Between Day 6 and Day 10, any abhorrence that I already had that conceivably the radiation and chemo weren't alive were absolved as Henry threw up about circadian and developed aperture sores that looked added aching than he accustomed them being. Day 6 brought with it a agitation of 102.7 that had me worried, but several hours and two antibiotics afterwards it was bottomward and things went aback to accustomed (to the admeasurement that annihilation actuality is normal). Accurate to form, Henry complained absolute little and took things as it came. All Henry's aliment comes through his IV, so for those of you who apperceive him well, he is bistro added and bigger than he anytime has, admitting I abhorrence the amber aliment accumulation is not actuality abundantly addressed here.
What I apperceive now is that no bulk what the outcome, the alley actuality is connected and it is hard. With every allotment of acceptable account there is generally bad. This morning, aural account of acquirements that Henry's white calculation is on its way in, we additionally abstruse that his bilirubin calculation (a alarmist enzyme) is 8x what it should be. We spent hours today annoying about the achievability of austere alarmist ache afore it was disqualified out. For now. Hopefully tomorrow his bilirubin calculation will go bottomward and his white calculation will go up. But we'll aloof accept to delay and see.
Thanks to all of you for your email, snail mail and surprises for Henry. It all helps.
My best to all of you,
Laurie
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: July 25, 2000 8:55:09 PM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Activity Good
Day 19 and all is bigger than well. Henry's white claret calculation continues to rise, he is absolutely off his morphine, alpha to eat afresh and has been fever-free for two weeks. Tomorrow Allen and I will arise the acquittal chic (dreamy words aren't they?) because there is allocution about alteration Henry's cachet to outpatient as aboriginal as afterwards this week. On Saturday night, Henry was accustomed to airing alfresco of his allowance for the aboriginal time aback he was accustomed on June 29 (see absorbed photos). This was a adventure as aback we accustomed none of us was abiding whether or not we would anytime see this day.
Words cannot accurate what we feel adapted now, so I won't alike try.
Thank you for all your notes, photos and surprises for Henry. They accept fabricated all the difference.
We will abide actuality in Minnesota until the end of October as Henry will accept to accomplish circadian visits to the clinic. Added than those outings, Allen, Henry, Jack and I will lay low in our accommodation for the abounding 100 canicule post-transplant. Our abode is 2900 Thomas Avenue South, Apt. 1530, Minneapolis, MN 55416.
With acknowledgment and love.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: Wednesday, August 02, 2000 1:34 PM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: 100%
We're aloof about to say goodbye to Allowance 5, Cartilage Basal Displace Assemblage 4A breadth Henry has formed so adamantine to accumulate on alive for the accomplished 35 days. His white claret corpuscle calculation is now 1100 (still far beneath any of yours, but absolute acceptable because what he has aloof gone through) and his contempo cartilage basal aspiration showed that he has 100% donor beef and you can't do any bigger than that. That agency that his old adulterated basal is gone and his donor's basal is busily authoritative new white and red claret beef and some platelets too.
So in a few minutes, Allen, Henry, Jack and I will airing out of this hospital and be reunited as a ancestors already again.
We will absorb the abutting 75 canicule or so actuality in Minnesota accomplishing our best to assure Henry from viruses, bacilli and added things that would be acutely advancing to his accepted brittle condition. So we bought every antibacterial cleansing artefact in the Twin Cities breadth and we adjourned our accommodation til our calmly were raw. Henry will alpha out visiting the dispensary actuality for a few hours ceremony day and as his action improves, the visits will become beneath frequent. Added than that, we will be laying acutely low in our apartment. We apperceive that the alley is still absolutely long, but it feels so acceptable to accept angry the bend and headed into the administration of life.
Here is our new abode for those of you who appetence it:
2900 Thomas Avenue South, Apt. 1530
Minneapolis, MN 55416
The car is out advanced and I gotta run.
Thank you, acknowledge you, acknowledge you for all you accept done to advice us through this.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: September 15, 2000 8:38 PM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Greetings from the Midwest
On Monday, Henry was beneath anesthesia in the operating allowance actuality in Minnesota while the doctors extracted a babyish allotment of his hip cartilage and a sample of cartilage basal to get a abutting attending at how Henry is progressing. No bulk how abounding times we accept to go through this experience, it never seems to get any easier. It wasn't absent on us that Monday should accept been Henry and Jack's aboriginal day of school. Such is the adverse amid our activity actuality and the one we badly appetence to accompany aback at home.
Yesterday, Day 70 post-transplant, was a abundant day for us as we got the after-effects of Henry's biopsy. He still has 100% donor beef and there is able affirmation that all three of his corpuscle curve (red, white a platelets) are developing well. This was admirable account as alike admitting he had a agnate aftereffect at Day 21, it is accessible to lose the new cartilage basal affix over time as has happened afresh to accompany of ours. This would crave a added cartilage basal displace which would accept beneath of a adventitious of success aback the best donor has already been used. The account we got today makes it added and added acceptable that this will be our aboriginal and aftermost transplant, which, by the way, is way added than anyone should accept to face. I went to beddy-bye afraid at what the ability of adulation accumulated with the accuracy of science can do for a kid and his family.
Today I was acutely afflicted and ashamed by the account that a little boy with Fanconi anemia who had been angry for his activity actuality in Assemblage 4A connected afore we accustomed and able-bodied afterwards we larboard took his aftermost animation aftermost night.
My affection break for his ancestors and accompany who suffered through his diagnosis, admired every day of his life, acclaimed the success of his aboriginal transplant, afraid through the abrupt accident of his cartilage basal affix six months post-transplant and now ache his premature, adverse death.
I am afraid as the alley advanced of us charcoal connected and abounding with uncertainty. Yet as I abode this,
* Henry's claret counts are academy than they accept been aback December 1997,
* Henry is capacity his face with pancakes so he can get able as he is in training to accompany the Justice League (as Batman),
* Jack's dimples are lighting up the allowance as he defeats Allen yet afresh in a karate match, and
* We are advancing to leave actuality in 30 days, or one month, additionally accepted as absolutely soon. As the sun goes bottomward over Basin Calhoun, Day 72 is fast abutting and with it our acknowledgment to our home and our life.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: September 25, 2000 8:19 PM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Henry goes to the hospital
I am consistently a bit awesome about sending email updates as things can change so badly and afterwards admonishing here. So, actuality I am sending you yet accession amend that paints a badly altered account than the one I beatific aloof over a ceremony ago. Beneath than 24 hours afterwards I aftermost contacted you, I was putting Henry to bed aback I noticed that his forehead was absolute hot as I kissed him goodnight. Beneath than one hour later, Henry was accustomed to the hospital with a agitation of 102 . He was put on three added antibiotics to action whatever it was that he had and aggregate culturable was cultured. His agitation dissipated; his activity increased; his cultures were abrogating and we were beatific home three canicule later. Needless to say, we were added than
relieved to acquisition the ancestors Strongin/Goldberg aback calm afresh and enjoyed this little accommodation in a still-foreign boondocks as abundant as we did on August 3 and abundant added than we had abandoned canicule beforehand aback we could about aftertaste the fajitas at our adjacency admired Cactus Cantina.
Fast advanced to aftermost night at 8:30 aback already afresh Henry developed a aerial agitation and I activate myself afraid the able cull of abnegation and calling the hospital yet afresh to accomplish arrange for a readmission. So afterwards affairs an all-nighter (which was abundant added fun and adapted in college), I am home with Jack while Allen comforts Henry already afresh in Assemblage 4A of Fairview University Medical Center. And, again, it ability be three canicule or it ability be more; it ability be austere or it ability pass; we ability absolutely get to go home in beneath than four weeks or we ability be actuality for absolutely sometime. Abandoned time will tell.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: October 03, 2000
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: in and out, up and down
Henry is aback at our accommodation afterwards spending a ceremony in Assemblage 4A at Fairview University Medical Center. He was accustomed for agitation and abiding diarrhea, which aloft apropos about a austere displace complication, affix adjoin host ache (GVHD). Although Henry did not accept abounding of the altitude associated with GVHD, I, in particular, didn't feel adequate with the advance of "It's not likely, but possible" aback that was what we were told about the likelihood of Fanconi anemia aback Henry was aboriginal born.
Together with the doctors, we absitively to go advanced and do an endoscope to apprentice more. Afterwards two connected canicule of waiting, fabricated abundant best and harder by the deaths of two added accouchement on Assemblage 4A, we abstruse that Henry has no assurance of GVHD or annihilation abroad apparent and that he is aloof adversity from complications of a accepted virus. So actuality we are abutting Day 90, on 21 doses of medications ceremony day and an calm IV pump that delivers all Henry's comestible needs at night. By no agency easy, but a absolution to accept arise this far. If Henry goes fever-free and if his diarrhea improves in the abutting 2-3 weeks, we will apparently be on agenda to arch home ancient the third ceremony of October. We achievement to be in our home for Henry's fifth altogether on October 25. Although he won't be able to accept any accompany arise to absolve and may not admit it, it will be the happiest altogether we will anytime experience.
For anybody who has been afterward Henry's progress, you may be absorbed in the adventure on the advanced folio of today's Washington Column http://washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A62318-2000Oct2.html about Molly Nash, who additionally suffers from FA and is additionally actuality crude actuality at the University of Minnesota. We accept accepted Molly and her parents for abounding years as both our families accept approved to advance the envelope of science to accept a advantageous adolescent who is additionally a abiogenetic bout for our accouchement with FA. In accession to badly accretion the likelihood of a acknowledged displace (nearly 90% success bulk with a affinity donor, adjoin afterpiece to 30% success bulk with an altered donor), it additionally guarantees that the new babyish will be chargeless from Fanconi anemia and all the life-threatening challenges and raw affliction that it brings. Unfortunately, we were bootless in 9 attempts to accept a adolescent through in vitro fertilization who would be a bout for Henry; luckily, Molly's parents, Jack and Lisa, succeeded and aloof had Adam, who is a admirable babyish boy and the savior of his sister. The account of a accompanying affinity displace are accomplished throughout the accomplished displace action and activity of the patient: beneath baneful amounts of drugs are all-important (resulting in fewer, if any, connected appellation adverse effects), the likelihood of engraftment is greater and adventitious of bounce is lessened. We abide to be abundantly advantageous and accept so far defied the allowance which were adjoin the affectionate of success we've had with our altered (and so far alien to us) donor, absolve her affection and soul. Obviously we achievement that the affiance of this action is accomplished for abounding added families to come.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: October 14, 2000
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Day 100
On June 14, aback we angry off all the lights in our home and bound the door, we didn't apperceive whether or not Henry would alive to be bristles years old. I anticipation about that every one of the 1180 afar amid Washington and Minneapolis.
At the time, success for altered cartilage basal transplants for Fanconi anemia were arise about 30 percent (that agency that two out of every three families like ours had a adolescent die during transplant), but a new biologic had been added to the agreement and things were attractive a little bit better. We had bootless in our connected chase for a perfectly-matched donor and Henry started to charge transfusions regularly. Although Henry was an alive preschooler and a alpha soccer star, we knew that if we waited best he would be weaker and his adventitious for a acknowledged displace would be alike added out of reach. Day 100 -- a analytical ceremony in the apple of cartilage basal displace -- seemed like a lifetime and a dream away. I anticipation on Day 100, if we were amid the advantageous few, we would go into the hospital, the doctor would abolish Henry's axial line, abandon all his meds and accelerate us aback home. I anticipation Henry would still accept to abrasion a affectation and abstain accessible places, but would contrarily be able and OK.
Last night aback the alarm addled 12 midnight -- Day 100 -- there were no fireworks. Day 100 started and is catastrophe abundant like the antecedent 72 aback Henry was absolved from the hospital. Henry takes about 17 doses of analgesic daily, is on an intravenous diet pump throughout the night and has abiding and aching diarrhea. We are all beddy-bye beggared and abide to face a connected and ambiguous alley to recovery. Aside from hopefully transitioning aback to aliment aback Henry's GI amplitude heals, we apprehend that this will be cachet quo up until January at least. But we feel lucky. We are lucky. So far, we are a success story. And we accept activate creative, low-risk agency to accumulate Henry and Jack happy. Aloof today, Allen abiding for us to go to the Mall of America's Warner Brothers abundance (the benefactor of all things Batman) afore it was accessible to the accessible and Henry and Jack had a clandestine pre-birthday arcade extravaganza. Henry wore a affectation and afterwards we were done, we done all of our calmly over and over again. That was the aboriginal time aback June 28 that Henry has been anywhere besides the hospital and our apartment. Over the abutting nine months, we will be in the gray area breadth it will be Allen's and my albatross to counterbalance the risks associated with acknowledgment with Henry's affecting well-being. We will use our well-tested "no regrets" action as a adviser and achievement we get it right.
On Monday, October 16, Henry will abide anesthesia yet afresh for his fourth cartilage basal biopsy and aspiration aback we accustomed in June, as able-bodied as a echo sigmoidoscope to see if there accept been any improvements in his GI tract. If we get acceptable account abutting Thursday, afresh abutting weekend we will get aback into our car and amend our accomplish actuality active with the achievement and affiance of activity with Henry -- aloof in time to absolve his 5th altogether on October 25.
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To: Accompany of Henry
Date: October 23, 2000 12:58 AM
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: home
More than four months and a lifetime afterwards abandonment for Minneapolis, we are assuredly aback home. Acknowledgment to the absurd generosity of the Honeywell Corporation, Henry, Jack and I flew home Thursday afternoon with one added commuter and were home in two hours time. The accomplished time we were in Minnesota, home never seemed like it could possibly be so abutting by. Allen's drive, admitting absolute long, was abundant added peaceful with appreciably beneath stops than if we had been with him. He accustomed aloof yesterday.
I am relieved, exhausted, elated, afraid and hopeful, amid added things. Aback Henry is still demography 16 doses of medication ceremony day and is on a diet pump at night and we are accompanying accomplishing our best to advice Jack reenter his world, there is little time to untangle it all.
Many accompany accustomed Henry and Jack home on Thursday with a carol from our advanced lawn, authoritative them feel like the centermost of the universe. Amid that, affair the President, aerial on a clandestine jet, affair Cal Ripken, I abhorrence the bar has been set a bit aerial for ages three and four. What the hell, they deserve it.
Below is a album of a adventure (source unknown) from the Yom Kippur account that Allen abounding in Minneapolis.
Where is God's Perfection?
In Brooklyn, New York, Chush is a academy that caters to acquirements disabled children. Some accouchement abide in Chush for their absolute academy career, while others can be main-streamed into accepted schools.
At a Chush fund-raising dinner, the ancestor of a Chush adolescent delivered a accent that would never be abandoned by all who attended. Afterwards extolling the academy and its committed staff, he cried out, "Where is the accomplishment in my son Shay? Aggregate God does is done with perfection. But my adolescent cannot accept things as added accouchement do. My adolescent cannot bethink facts and abstracts as added accouchement do. Breadth is God's perfection?"
The admirers was abashed by the question, afflicted by the father's affliction and stilled by the acute query. " I believe," the ancestor answered, "that aback God brings a adolescent like this into the world, the accomplishment that he seeks is in the way bodies acknowledge to this child."
He afresh told the afterward adventure about his son Shay: One afternoon Shay and his ancestor absolved accomplished a esplanade breadth some boys Shay knew were arena baseball. Shay asked, "Do you ahead they will let me play?" Shay's ancestor knew that his son was not at all able-bodied and that best boys would not appetence him on their team. But Shay's ancestor accepted that if his son was called to comedy it would accord him a adequate faculty of belonging.
Shay's ancestor approached one of the boys in the acreage and asked if Shay could play. The boy looked about for advice from his teammates. Accepting none, he took affairs into his own calmly and said, "We are accident by six runs and the bold is in the eighth inning. I assumption he can be on our aggregation and we'll try to put him up to bat in the ninth inning." Shay's ancestor was athrill as Shay smiled broadly. Shay was told to put on a cuff and go out to comedy abbreviate centermost field.
In the basal of the eighth inning, Shay's aggregation denticulate a few runs but was still abaft by three. In the basal of the ninth inning, Shay's aggregation denticulate afresh and now with two outs and the bases loaded with the abeyant acceptable run on base, Shay was appointed to be up. Would the aggregation absolutely let Shay bat at this best and accord abroad their adventitious to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was accustomed the bat. Anybody knew that it was all but absurd because Shay didn't alike apperceive how to authority the bat properly, let abandoned hit with it. About as Shay stepped up to the plate, the bullpen confused a few accomplish to lob the brawl in cautiously so Shay should at atomic be able to accomplish contact.
The aboriginal angle came in and Shay swung clumsily and missed. One of Shay's teammates came up to Shay and calm they captivated the bat and faced the bullpen cat-and-mouse for the abutting pitch. The bullpen afresh took a few accomplish advanced to bung the brawl cautiously against Shay. As the angle came in, Shay and his assistant swung at the bat and calm they hit a apathetic arena brawl to the pitcher. The bullpen best up the bendable grounder and could calmly accept befuddled the brawl to the aboriginal baseman. Shay would accept been out and that would accept concluded the game. Instead, the bullpen took the brawl and threw it on a aerial arc to adapted field, far above ability of the aboriginal baseman. Anybody started yelling,"Shay, run to first. Run to first." Never in his activity had Shay run to first. He scampered bottomward the baseline believing and startled. By the time he accomplished aboriginal base, the adapted fielder had the ball.
He could accept befuddled the brawl to the added baseman who would tag out Shay, who was still running. But the adapted fielder accepted what the pitcher's intentions were, so he threw the brawl aerial and far over the third baseman's head. Anybody yelled, "Run to second, run to second." Shay ran arise added abject as the runners advanced of him absurdly circled the bases arise home. As Shay accomplished added base, the opposing abbreviate stop ran to him, angry him in the administration of third abject and shouted, "Run to third." As Shay angled third, the boys from both teams ran abaft him screaming, "Shay run home." Shay ran home, stepped on home bowl and all 18 boys aerial him on their amateur and fabricated him the hero, as he had aloof hit a "grand slam" and won the bold for his team.
"That day," said the ancestor cautiously with tears now rolling bottomward his face, "those 18 boys accomplished their akin of God's perfection."
With acknowledgment to all of you.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: November 11, 2000
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Displace Bout 2000
Henry has been accepting a few column displace problems accompanying to his alarmist and his kidneys as able-bodied as connected abiding (and abominably acutely painful) diarrhea, all of which accept worsened in the accomplished week. Afterwards several bounded doctors accessories aftermost ceremony and many, abounding buzz calls, aboriginal Friday morning Allen, Henry and I catholic to New Jersey breadth Henry was accustomed to Hackensack University Medical Center. Henry's adept hematologist, who is based actuality and an able on Fanconi anemia and transplantation, is administering tests to abstract the account of Henry's difficulties. We accept that if the problems are not appropriately diagnosed and advised ASAP, they could bound circling out of ascendancy and alike be fatal. A pediatric GI specialist from Mt. Sinai in NYC visited us today to appraise Henry and we fabricated affairs for a alarmist biopsy and endoscopy of his gastrointestinal arrangement aboriginal abutting week. We are actuality as advancing as accessible because this is the time, 4-6 months post-transplant, that accouchement crude with the agreement acclimated on Henry at Minnesota are failing. It is our compassionate that abandoned six of 11 accouchement accept fabricated it to one year post-transplant with altered donors - so we're on bend to say the least. We hadn't alike amorphous to recover, let abandoned bolt our breath, from the claiming of the displace and abiding break in Minnesota and now this....
We are acquisitive to leave for Washington, DC by the end of abutting week. Jack backward aback home this time with his aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents and we absence him terribly. We are tired, afraid but adequate the adorable adulatory bagels accessible on the unit.
To: Accompany of henry
From: Laurie Strongin
Date: November 17, 2000
Subject: Bigger news
Here is a abrupt update. Henry had a cartilage basal aspiration and biopsy as able-bodied as an aerial and lower ambit of his GI amplitude this accomplished Wednesday. As of today, all his cultures are abrogating which is acceptable and his cartilage basal continues to attending absolute good. We will abide actuality at Hackensack University Medical Centermost through the weekend to ensure that Henry continues to advance and achievement to acknowledgment to DC on Monday. Jack is accepting a brawl with his grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins, but we absence him like crazy.
All's able-bodied that end's well, right?
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: November 27, 2000
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Aback in the Hospital
I'm alpha to feel like a burst almanac here, but I aloof capital to let you all apperceive that we are aback in New Jersey in the hospital again. We went home a ceremony ago Monday and spent a admirable six canicule in our house. Henry was appealing low energy, but so blessed to be home again. I can't alike activate to alarm how adamantine it was to accept our ancestors afar and how abundant it was to be reunited with Jack. So, at 5:00 a.m. on Sunday aback Henry acicular a agitation of 103.5, Allen and I dumped whatever occurred to us into a duffle bag and headed up 95 North afterwards driver's licenses or shoes for Henry and Jack, but at atomic we remembered to put the kids in the car. We arrested into Allowance 6507 breadth we will be for awhile. So far, we accept had cultures, catscans, xrays, transfusions, but still don't apperceive breadth the infection is. Henry will accept added catscans tomorrow and a alarmist biopsy Wednesday or Thursday. Thankfully, his agitation is gone.
We'll accumulate you posted, but capital you to apperceive what we are doing. I can't alike activate to acquaint you how we are doing....
With love,
me
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: 12/02/00
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Nebraska
We ushered in the ages of December like we did July, August, September, October and November...in the hospital. We accept spent 16 of the accomplished 22 canicule at Hackensack University Medical Centermost in New Jersey (where Henry's hematologist works) aggravating to acquisition out what is ailing Henry. For the accomplished few weeks, Henry has had little energy, casual aerial fevers and his alarmist has been sending signs of distress. Henry had yet accession cartilage basal aspiration and biopsy, aerial and lower GI scopes and best afresh a alarmist biopsy...all of which accept taken a assessment on him and on us. Bygone the doctors actuality bent that he has aberant mycobacterial infection, article that preys on allowed compromised people. The basal band is that we will be actuality for at atomic abundant of this advancing ceremony and Henry will add three added antibiotics to his already backbreaking circadian regime. The advance of analysis is up through the one year ceremony of his displace -- 8 added months.
For those of you Springsteen fans, this is all Nebraska.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: January 3, 2001
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: 2001
At 11:59 p.m. on December 31 we activate ourselves watching a thermometer instead of a clock. Henry ushered in the New Year with a fever. Admitting we hoped 2001 would be altered we acquisition ourselves aback breadth we would rather not be: Henry ailing in New Jersey with Allen and me by his side, and Jack allotment to abide in Washington for an connected "sleepover" with my sister and his cousins. Jack acclaimed his fourth altogether aftermost ceremony and continues to accord us much-needed joy.
Henry was accustomed to the hospital because his alarmist continues to account him problems and addle his doctors. His bark and eyes accord abroad his action - they afterglow ablaze yellow. He is bloated. Abundant platelet, red claret corpuscle and claret transfusions accept been appropriate over the accomplished few weeks aloof to accumulate him stable. He has no activity and spends abundant of his day in bed. Actuality at Hackensack, Henry's doctor is testing to see if maybe what is causing his problems is not the abstruse infection that we've been alleviative speculatively with no assurance of improvement, but possibly a attenuate anatomy of affix adjoin host disease. As abundant as I connected for some affectionate of absolute acknowledgment to what ails him (and a treatment), I am abounding with anxious for aloof the simple smile that makes my canicule so adequate and him so lovable. For now, all we can do is "keep on befitting on" as Bob Dylan sings, and achievement that 2001 gets a lot bigger than it began.
I additionally appetence to booty this befalling to aboveboard acknowledge all of you who responded so bound to our email fundraising appeal. We apologize for not sending abandoned belletrist to acknowledge you for your caring and generosity, so amuse apperceive that we are acutely confused and abundantly appreciative. How advantageous we are to accept such accompany and ancestors like you who abide to advice us so abundant during these difficult times.
We ambition you a advantageous and joy-filled new year.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: January 16, 2001
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Karate
Just in case you all were as afraid about Henry as I was aback I aftermost adapted you, I anticipation I canyon forth some bigger news. We are home afterwards accession 12 canicule in the hospital. We still don't accept a analysis and are cat-and-mouse for a buzz alarm today with some account apropos whether or not Henry has affix adjoin host ache on top of a bacterial infection. But Henry is back. He gets out of bed. He gets dressed. We alike took him to the zoo on Saturday to accommodated the new pandas. (Don't worry, he was cutting a mask, hat and gloves and we backward abroad from the crowds.) It was so acceptable to be alfresco as a ancestors aloof like afore this all started. On Sunday morning Henry woke up and said, "Mom, alarm Vijay, I'm accessible for my karate lesson." So bygone Henry had his 45-minute assignment at home, bliss and all. He's still got a agency to go to be what he was like in June, but is so abundant bigger than November and December. Here's to acquisitive he keeps accepting better.
Thanks afresh for all your love, affair and support. We'll accumulate you posted.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: January 20, 2001
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Heading West
Seven months and eight canicule afterwards we larboard home to go to Minnesota for Henry's cartilage basal transplant, we will already afresh accomplish the 1180 mile expedition west in our car with a agnate bulk of abhorrence and agitation but weary from all we've been through these connected months. I don't ahead we've had a acceptable night's blow aback we larboard home and don't ahead it accident anytime soon. The facts are that Henry is now abased on about account or annual platelet and red corpuscle transfusions admitting application his 100% donor corpuscle status. Aloof bygone some notable pathologists accept detected affix adjoin host ache in his gut. This is adamantine to accept accustomed the advance in his appetite, activity akin and accord in the world. He is arena ball, laughing, accomplishing abracadabra tricks and is aback to badinage about with brother Jack. He has a abounding arch of hair, so abundant so that he got a crew two canicule ago. I ahead if he weren't a ablaze adumbration of chicken (a alarmist thing) and didn't accept his catheters blind out of his shirt, you'd never accept the battles he's fought this year.
There are differences of assessment about what is activity on with Henry and what to do about it. The best way for us to boldness it is to acknowledgment to the hospital breadth he had his transplant. They accept abundant acquaintance with this accurate agreement and the complications that Henry is facing. We do this with the advance of all our doctors. So aboriginal Monday morning, Henry, Jack, Allen and I will amend our accomplish and achievement like hell we get some answers, a plan and some acumen to abide hopeful as that is what keeps us all activity here. We're not abiding breadth we'll be or how connected we'll be there, but we'll accumulate in touch.
Thanks for all you abide to do for us.
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To: Accompany of Henry
Date: February 1, 2001
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: finally!
Today I'll allotment some acceptable news. We accept abstruse that Henry does not accept affix adjoin host disease. For those of you who accept lived in the displace apple you apperceive the association of this news, and for the others of you, aloof apperceive this is a really, absolutely acceptable affair as GVH can be austere and can amplify the cartilage basal displace accretion time significantly. Aback October Henry has had three cartilage basal biopsies, three gut biopsies and a arduous alarmist biopsy, all acute anesthesia, some added aching than others and all absolute alarming for me and Allen. All these procedures were done to acquisition out what was activity wrong, why was Henry accepting diarrhea up to 12 times a day; why was he abhorrent and vomiting; why did he debris to eat annihilation at all for added than 10 weeks; why wouldn't he get out of bed...?
Henry about bottomed out on January 1. But miraculously on January 3, he woke up and he was hungry. Afresh he capital to get out of bed. Afresh he capital to comedy basketball and soccer in the halls of the Pediatric Hem/Onc area at Hackensack University Medical Center. He was accessible to get better. And he has kept accepting bigger by the day.
We accustomed actuality in Minneapolis a ceremony ago Wednesday; and Henry's gut and alarmist biopsy slides accustomed two canicule ago. Afterwards review, the pathologists accept activate that Henry doesn't accept GVH or annihilation abroad above the bacterial infection he's been angry aback October. Two canicule ago, Henry got to ceremoniously cascade a medication that he's been demography up to bristles times a day aback July adapted bottomward the sink. Tomorrow he will be done with his cyclosporin, which will added advice him action his infection. Abutting week, yet accession med goes bottomward the sink. We achievement to be able to arch east afresh backward abutting ceremony (especially because today it is a aerial of 7 degrees, but 25 beneath with the wind chill).
Henry's still on 8 pills circadian and one aqueous med and will be until abutting fall. He gets IV fluids alert a day while he remembers how acceptable it feels to alcohol a alpine canteen of milk, lemonade, coke, whatever. And he is accepting red beef and platelets every brace of weeks for the time being. His diarrhea, vomiting, abhorrence all are gone.
We are adequate to say the least. As the GI specialist said to us yesterday, "Congratulations, you got your kid back."
Now I can't affiance that won't get accession "Nebraska" email tomorrow, abutting ceremony or abutting month. But today, we'll all adore "finally!"
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: February 15, 2001
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Home!
We are home from Minneapolis. The cruise was able-bodied account it as we now apperceive that Henry doesn't accept affix adjoin host ache and accordingly he was able to get rid of bisected of his medications. It was so abundant fun watching him dump them bottomward the bore and afresh bandy his anchor in the air. "Yeah!" On the Henry and Jack calibration of "Not Good" (this accomplished winter) to "Better" to "Super Better" to "Super, Duper Better" (we're at Disneyworld); they now allocate Henry as advancing "Super Better." What a connected way he's arise in such a abbreviate time. Attending out Disneyworld, Henry and Jack are counting down.
Even bigger than auctioning his medications was watching Henry accommodate the aggressive bank at the Mall of America. He accomplished abundant times on three abstracted occasions, aboriginal authoritative it halfway, afresh two-thirds over and over again. Assuredly the day afore we were to leave, Henry capital to go aback and try one aftermost time. He was determined. With IV curve blind out of his shirt and a careful affectation on his face, up he went all the way to the top and he rang that buzzer emblematic to anybody in Affected Snoopy that he fabricated it. Reread those aftermost three words and brainstorm how Allen and I felt.
So things are good, absolutely good. We're home and not planning to leave anytime soon. Jack is aback in academy and admiring it. Henry is Henry again. He hasn't bare a platelet admixture aback we larboard DC about four weeks ago. We still accept to accord with 8 pills and two liquids daily, and will until abutting fall. It's adamantine to bethink aloof how bad things were aloof one ages ago and we don't booty annihilation for granted. But we do apperceive how to adore the enjoyables and that's what we are doing.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: April 25, 2001
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Aback to Minnesota
Just as we accomplished acclamation the aftermost of our postcards (Sorry, if you didn't get one, we don't accept a accepted address.), Henry's action took a about-face for the worse. In the accomplished six weeks, he has developed a absolute uncomfortable, full-body bark rash. A bark biopsy and assorted dermatology visits with specialists at Johns Hopkins and Georgetown University disqualified out affix adjoin host disease. The doctors' suspicions focused instead on a biologic abhorrence or exzema. Dayenu.
Then, aloof as our fears were actuality allayed, one of the physicians at Georgetown noticed that Henry is benign the adapted ancillary of his body. A neurologist assigned a MRI, and low and catch - a new surprise. The blur showed a accumulation in his academician whose agent and calmness is unclear. A neurosurgeon who met with us post-MRI senses that there is absolutely annihilation to anguish about, and Henry is slated for added testing in a ages to affirm this. Dayenu.
Following abutting on the heels of our "brain scare," Henry came bottomward with a abdomen virus, got absolutely ailing and absent six pounds in one week. For the bigger allotment of two weeks, the adventurous little soldier was in Georgetown Hospital aggravating accepting counterbalanced through medications, IV fluids and claret transfusions. He assuredly was absolved aftermost Thursday. Dayenu.
Now he is home but is so anemic he can almost get out of bed. Aback he does, he complains of actuality "wobbly" and needs advice accomplishing life's basics. His adventurous and agog affliction him throughout the day and night, he has little use of his larboard hand, and his anatomy is assuming signs of malnutrition. It could be that the virus took too abundant out of him and that he needs lots of IV diet and fluids and rest. Or it could be that all the biopsies accept been amiss and that, in fact, he has abiding affix adjoin host ache and is in charge of immediate, acute attention.
Not surprisingly, Allen, Jack, Henry and I are boarding a flight to Minnesota tomorrow to get some answers.
We are scared; we are tired; but that's annihilation new.
We'll accumulate you acquaint and achievement to accelerate you bigger account in the advancing week.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: May 8, 2001
From: Allen Goldberg
Subject: Henry Update
Henry is appointed to accept academician anaplasty on Tuesday morning. His doctors accept apparent a babyish accumulation in his thalamus, which is abreast the centermost of the brain. In a action that should aftermost about three hours, the
neurosurgery aggregation actuality at Univ. of Minnesota will go in, abolish allotment of the accumulation and assay it. Henry has absent backbone and advancement on the larboard ancillary of his body, and this action has worsened over the accomplished two weeks or so. Coincidentally, an MRI done about three weeks ago in Washington, DC showed no assurance of this lesion. We may accept some adumbration by tomorrow black of what is activity on in Henry's head.
With attention to some of the added difficulties that precipitated our acknowledgment to Minnesota (to the hospital breadth Henry accustomed his cartilage basal displace 10 months ago), Henry is assuming abundant improvement. What was aboriginal anticipation to be affix adjoin host ache affecting his bark has now been diagnosed as a astringent allergic acknowledgment to one of his medications. He has been removed from best of his medications and his bark is abiding to normal. In addition, the malnutrition, which resulted in him accident one fifth of his anatomy weight, is actuality auspiciously advised through ceaseless intravenous nutrition. He has acquired one batter aback we
arrived here, and he has additionally acquired an clamorous appetite for garlic aliment (that is all he will eat - go figure) which should advice accelerate his acknowledgment to his accustomed weight.
Henry's animated disposition is a little beneath brilliant than usual. He agilely and bravely tolerates a lot of concrete ache and we apperceive the larboard ancillary crime is absolute abashing to him, and us. Laurie, Jack and I are all
doing as able-bodied as can be accepted beneath the circumstances. Jack is accomplishing his best to acclamation up Henry, and he has alike awkward in a few comedy dates with accompany he fabricated actuality aftermost summer.
Thanks for all of your connected affair and support.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: May 19, 2001
From: Laurie Strongin
Subject: Still in Minnesota
Whenever I abode these updates I try to accent Henry's animation and adventuresomeness and I'll do that afresh today. It is hard, however, to put all that in ambience afterwards absolutely compassionate aloof what he has to abide on a about circadian base over the accomplished 11 months aback we aboriginal accustomed in Minneapolis abounding with abhorrence and achievement about what was to come. At times, I accept approved to accumulate some of the aching capacity from you to assure Henry's aloofness and added times it has been to assure you from the aching absoluteness of what is absolutely a barbarous acquaintance for Henry and us. But afterwards the accomplished few weeks, it feels important for me to let you in on some of the capacity so you'll be able to absolutely acknowledge what this kid has endured, what he's fabricated of and why we accumulate angry so hard.
The aftermost time Allen wrote was aftermost Monday -- the night afore Henry underwent a academician biopsy to analyze the antecedent of a 1 cm by 1.5 cm accumulation in the average of his brain. This accumulation was arise on an MRA (a accessory to the MRI) that he had several canicule earlier. It did not arise on an MRI he had several weeks beforehand in DC. Aback this was aboriginal mentioned to us I calmly absurd that the neurosurgeon would admit a very, absolute attenuate aggravate in the lower aback of his arch and abolish some aqueous or tissue to analysis and afresh put in a few stitches beneath a babyish bandage. But that is not what happened. Henry's anaplasty lasted 5 1/2 acute (for me and Allen) hours during which time he was beneath anesthesia. This is a best action than his accessible affection anaplasty aback he was bristles months old. There was a absolute absolute accident of stroke, paralysis, and added accident of acoustic activity that we anticipation about a accomplished lot during that time and throughout the one-week accretion in the hospital. We additionally anticipation a lot about what they doctors would find. Would it be lymphoma or accession anatomy of blight or an infection, both of which would be absolute difficult to treat? Would Henry be able to survive this hurdle as well? All of this is adamantine to abide if it abandoned was the challenge, but on top of a cartilage basal displace and endless biopsies and surgeries it acquainted a bit over the top. Thankfully, Henry endured the anaplasty absolute able-bodied and his accretion has been bland to date. In the end, the doctors baldheaded off a 3 by 4 inch application of Henry's beard in the adapted advanced of his arch -- beard that has abandoned afresh developed aback afterwards his chemotherapy; and he has a ample and absolutely abominable craggly cavity on his arch sewn calm with abounding stitches. The stitches will arise out on Tuesday and his beard will abound aback and someday, I'm abiding this will be aloof accession anamnesis to add to all the others.
After a difficult ceremony of waiting, we got the final anatomy address that activate that the accumulation is neither annihilative nor infectious. They couldn't definitively aphorism out a achievement as a cause, but it didn't attending like he had had one. So, basically the account is alien and so far the analysis has been concrete therapy. He can now lift his larboard duke over his head, which he couldn't do above-mentioned to the surgery, and we are accomplishing our best to admonish him to use it in his circadian activities.
After abundant visits to the dermatology dispensary and three bark biopsies, we are still aggravating to amount out the account of Henry's bark rash. The adventurous had appeared to go abroad afterwards we discontinued the use of the biologic Cipro, but it has arise aback and we had to analysis yet afresh for the achievability of affix adjoin host disease. Our doctor has told us that he has accession accommodating who activated abrogating the aboriginal two bark biopsies, but was absolute on the third. Hopefully it won't be the case here, but it is analytical to apperceive if he has GVH because if he does and it goes basic it can advance to added organs and become absolute serious. Anyhow, above-mentioned to the aboriginal bark biopsy I ample that they aloof scrape a bit of the bark off and analysis it, but it's not so simple. In fact, they accord Henry a attempt of bounded analgesic and afresh use the agnate of a aperture puncher to bite out a allotment of Henry's bark and afresh stitch it up with two stitches. This hurts him a lot and the actuality that bygone he had to accept two done in a row was brutal.
But Henry still smiles and he still laughs. A lot. Plus he got a absolutely air-conditioned Batman abridged watch for his troubles, which he seemed to accede to be a acceptable bargain.
Despite all this, Henry is still Henry; and we are still us. Aloof a bit exhausted up by the acquaintance -- Henry physically and the blow of us emotionally.
To: Accompany of Henry
Date: June 15, 2001
From: Laurie
Subject: Funland
A lot has happened aback I aftermost wrote from Minnesota. On Thursday, May 24 at 4:30 p.m. our cartilage basal displace doctor mentioned that we could go aback home to DC. Afraid to booty the adventitious that he'd change his mind, we activate ourselves on a 10:00 p.m. flight aback to DC. Afterwards bristles weeks of alive out of a suitcase, bistro booty out aliment and captivation Henry's duke while he had academician surgery, a bronchoscopy, an MRA and three bark biopsies, we were all atrocious to get home.
We didn't alike accept the adventitious to restart our bi-weekly afore Henry developed a aerial agitation and concluded up at Georgetown Hospital for yet accession week's stay. It angry out that he had developed a austere infection in his axial band (the catheter that has been blind out of Henry's chest aback aftermost June 28), so austere in fact, that one of the doctors there told me that I was adapted in ambitious that they abolish the band as "in accession few days, he would accept been done for." Afterwards angry so adamantine for 5 1/2 years to accord my son the adventitious at activity that he so deserves, I couldn't buck this guy's anecdotic the abeyant afterlife of my son as "done for" while capacity his aperture with Froot Loops in the hospital hallway. Needless to say, I'm abiding that he will advance his chat best in the future.
So that accompany us to today, June 14, 2001. One year ago today, we bound our advanced aperture for a four-month adventure to the unknown. At that time, it was (and still is) absolutely ambiguous whether or not Henry will survive this experience, admitting today my gut tells me that he will. If anyone had anytime told me how abuse adamantine this would accept been, or how abundant affliction and adversity my kid would experience, I don't apperceive if I would accept had the adventuresomeness to go through with it. But together, Henry, Jack, Allen and I, forth with our absurd arrangement of accompany and family, aloof took it one moment at a time. We didn't feel apologetic for ourselves or alike decay abundant activity adulatory things were different. We aloof did what we had to do. We were adventurous in advanced of the kids and cried our eyes out aback they assuredly fell comatose at night. Afterwards all that, I attending at the smiles that still flash on Henry and Jack's faces and I apperceive that we did some things -- a lot of things -- right. I've been accustomed two tickets to Funland, an action esplanade in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, in my wallet with me for absolutely one year. One for Jack and one for Henry. For those of you who haven't had the befalling to acquaintance Funland firsthand, it is the actuality adolescence dreams are fabricated of, and accordingly lies aloof beneath Disneyworld on Henry's account of "Things To Do Aback Henry Gets Super Better." Everytime I took out change for the hospital automat apparatus or a parking meter, I looked at those more exhausted out blooming tickets and aloof hoped like hell that ceremony of my boys would get to use one this summer. Today, I handed Henry and Jack ceremony a admission and they boarded a baiter at Funland. There they were -- Jack aflame his to-die-for dimples campanology the alarm on his baiter like a lunatic; and Henry animated big, amidst by the blimp animals he had won at abundant amateur in the arcade, blind of the catheter band in his arm and academician anaplasty blister on his head. We fabricated it.
Laurie Strongin
To: Accompany of Henry
From: Laurie Strongin
Sent: June 20, 2001
Subject: 180
Things accept afflicted badly from aback I aftermost wrote. Henry is aback in the hospital in Hackensack, New Jersey breadth he has been aback aboriginal Monday and will be for awhile. Although we had two aces canicule at the beach, the actuality is that Henry has been ailing six times aback March due to alien fevers and added complications. We went to the bank because at that moment in time we could and because, admitting we hoped we had apparent our aftermost hospital visit, we knew abundant to go aback the activity was good. Aloof in case. And so we accept absitively to admire every moment that Henry is not in the hospital and alive it up fully. We are still cautious. We went to Funland adapted aback it opened during the ceremony aback it was atomic crowded, armed with antibacterial wipes. But we went and we had a brawl because we accept that Funland is what Henry keeps angry so adamantine for. "Super better," in his and Jack's continuum, is all about Funland and Disneyworld. If we don't advice admonish Henry of the affiance of those things, he may stop angry so hard. And action he must. Abnormally now.
As I write, Henry is accepting his fourth endoscopy aback aftermost abatement and what I ahead is about his 20th accepted anesthesia aback that time. Yet again, we are analytic for the account of his diarrhea, which has arise aback with a avengement this accomplished week. Could it be that his balmy affix adjoin host of the bark has advance to his gut? Could the MAI infection that bedeviled him aftermost abatement and winter be advancing back? We may or may not acquisition out in a few day's time. This Friday, Henry will abide three added surgical procedures -- the adjustment of a new axial band in his chest through which he can get antibiotics; the adjustment of a gastronomy tube in his abdomen through which he can get nourished; and an accessible biopsy of his chest to actuate the account of what arise to be assorted lesions in and about his lungs. We had captivated out so abundant achievement that the one-year ceremony of Henry's displace would be a new alpha for him and all of us. But instead it finds us agreement a new axial band in because we are still in for a connected haul. For those of you who accept been in our shoes, you apperceive this is not acceptable stuff. I'm aggravating adamantine not to let my apperception edge too far or anguish too abundant about what is coming, admitting that is more hard. Until we get biopsy after-effects aboriginal abutting week, we won't apperceive what is activity on, how austere it is or how to fix it. So we will delay and try to accomplish the best of a difficult bearings yet again.
And through it all, Henry is still Henry. He is happy, funny and enjoys aggregate agreeable about life. If I could canteen this kid's animation and baptize it around, the apple and all of us in it, would be all the bigger for it.
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